Author Archive: Wendy Johnstone
Wendy Johnstone is a partner at Elder Care & Senior Resources and lives with her husband and daughter in Comox, B.C.
How Parents Feel About Us Taking Care of Them
Editor’s Note: Good morning readers. Wendy Johnstone is on site with a look at how parents and older loved ones often feel about their kids beginning to take care of them and make life decisions. She also offers up some tips when providing care and making tough decisions. Here she is: When my father had [...]
Denial Is Not A Strategy – Planning for Unexpected Eldercare Challenges
Editor’s Note: Happy Thursday! This morning we have Wendy Johnstone on site with a look at planning for unexpected eldercare. Here she is: There are days where being in denial is better than coming face to face with reality. Like when your child is so misbehaved in the grocery store, you actually believe this small [...]
When It's Time to Have "The Talk" with Your Parents
Editor’s Note: Good morning. Wendy Johnstone is on site with tips to help you recognize when your aging parents need more help than they want to admit and accept, and how to discuss this with them openly and honestly. Here she is: When I was about 25 years old, my grandmother stopped allowing her family and friends [...]
When It’s Time to Have “The Talk” with Your Parents
Editor’s Note: Good morning. Wendy Johnstone is on site with tips to help you recognize when your aging parents need more help than they want to admit and accept, and how to discuss this with them openly and honestly. Here she is: When I was about 25 years old, my grandmother stopped allowing her family and friends [...]
Aging Parents, Adult Children – Learn to Make Life Decisions Together
Editor’s Note: Good morning. Wendy Johnstone is on site with a look at learning how to communicate better with your aging parents as they need more care, understanding each others differences and coming to a happy medium where important decisions for health care, living arrangements and more can be made together. Here she is: “It’s hard [...]
Does Caring For Aging Parents Have You Caught In The Middle?
Editor’s Note: Good morning. Wendy Johnstone is on site discussing the Sandwich Generation and offers up some tips on how to manage this time in your life. Here she is: Being a parent gives new meaning to the word exhausted. When my three-and-a-half-year-old, falls to the ground after a quick trip to the grocery store and [...]
Improving Our Community One Elder at a Time
Editor’s Note: Good morning readers. First I’d like to announce that Stacey, Kathy and Melanie won the fantastic cookbooks from yesterday. Yay! Now, we are excited to reveal a new direction for Wendy’s Grand-Parents column this morning, as we move toward a long-term discussion about planning for different stages in our lives and ways to [...]
Helping Children Understand Dementia
Editor’s Note: Good morning! Today we have Wendy Johnstone on site helping us help our kids understand dementia. Here she is: “I do remember, and then when I try to remember, I forget.” – Winnie-the-Pooh “Why does Nana call me your name Mommy instead of mine?” “How come Grandpa doesn’t know how to use his [...]
Memorable Care Home Visits with Aging Family
Editor’s Note: Good morning. Today we have Wendy Johnstone with us discussing communication with an aging loved one, as well as tips and tools on communicating with those who have an impairment and/or challenge. Here she is: “I’m among the forgetters. But I’m not an empty shell“. ~ Richard Taylor, author of Alzheimer’s from the [...]
Helping Children With the Loss of a Grandparent
Editor’s Note: Good morning. The loss of loved ones is such a hard thing to talk about, especially with children. This morning Wendy Johnstone is hear to help us all learn a bit more about helping our children deal with the passing of a grandparent. Here she is: I think it’s safe to say, “Death [...]
Grand-Parents – Aging With Dignity
Editor’s Note: This morning we have Wendy Johnstone on site discussing aging with dignity and all those myths that tag along with aging. On Sunday, Our Big Earth is lending a hand with the Walk of Dignity at the Filberg Park and Heritage Lodge in Comox to help connect children to grandparents and grandfriends, also [...]
The Greatness of Grandparents & Grandfriends
Editor’s Note: This morning we have Wendy Johnstone on site reminding us of the value of grandparents and grandfriends. Here she is: A note from Wendy to readers: My trip to Toronto was fantastic – thank you for the well wishes. I have to admit I was greatly relieved that the garbage strike was over by [...]
The Greatness of Grandparents & Grandfriends
Editor’s Note: This morning we have Wendy Johnstone on site reminding us of the value of grandparents and grandfriends. Here she is: A note from Wendy to readers: My trip to Toronto was fantastic – thank you for the well wishes. I have to admit I was greatly relieved that the garbage strike was over by [...]
Traditions for Long-Distance Grandparents
Editor’s Note: Today we have Wendy Johnstone discussing long-distance grandparenting. Here she is: It’s been a flurry of activity and excitement for Carly around our house for the past 3 weeks. (Actually, if any of you know me personally, there’s never a shortage of excitement and flurry in our house). However, the charge in our house [...]
Food Through the Generations
Editor’s Note: Bite-Sized Specialty Foods is going to be at Brambles from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. today. There is some serious yumminess going on, so I would head in the direction of downtown Courtenay and check it out. I would also like to encourage you to take some time out at Noon today and [...]
Connect Kids to Grandparents-Living Legacy
“What lies behind us and what lies before us are small matters compared to what lies within us.” ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson As my great-Aunt Adelaide would say, “My cup runneth over”. It was an honour and a privilege to read your comments and stories about your own grandparents last month. Thank you for sharing [...]
Grand Parents – A Love That Defines Generations
Editor’s Note: Good Morning. I am over the moon to have Solutions for Seniors Eldercare Planning’s Wendy Johnstone here this morning to kick off our new Grant Parents column. Wendy brings with her a lovely, warm, soulful perspective on learning, love and compassion through the generations and I am truly honoured that she has agreed [...]
